Whether she is already into games, or just seems willing to try them, getting some of your hobby time back after the initial high of finding her wears off is a common goal. Being able to incorporate her into your hobby is typically the quickest and most effective way of managing this overall. As more and more women pick up video games on their own, the likelihood of being able to convince her of trading going out for a few hours together in game gets better and better. So instead of planning yet another trip into Liverpool, try setting up a time for the two of you to hang out together in a digital world.
Introduce Her to Multiplayer Games
The most crucial part this is finding a solid multiplayer game worth playing together. Fortunately there are lots of options out there. Unfortunately, unless she is already keen on one genre or game, it can be hard to figure out which is going to be your best bet. Some of the best ways we have found to really get things going in the right direction is to start by introducing her to titles you are already familiar with. This is especially true if you happen to have one or two games that you really enjoy. When it comes right down to it, the more confident you are in what you tell her and how you introduce her something, the greater the chance she will make the attempt to like it, even if it doesn’t immediately appeal to her. The simple fact that you enjoy it so much is enough for her to bother in the first place. Think of it like the role of British casual dating site reviews in your search for the best site to find her in the first place. Chances are, you were more willing to try the places that already had decent reviews.
On the other hand, someone who is already into gaming may be more open to trying out a new game with you. In fact, we have found that women who are already gamers themselves, are more likely to get into a new game with you than to make time learning an older one. This is especially true if the game in question is very competitive. It is much hard to join in on a competition where much of the meta and the competitive team play has already been established, and chances are she is going to feel a little self-conscious about her skill level in a situation where everyone has had time to really fine tune their abilities. Starting off fresh, then, means that two of you are more or less on the same playing field when it comes to learning something new, and if she is already a gamer that is often the key to getting her interested in starting something specifically with you.
Give Her More Input on Other Dates
Another good tactic when it comes to turning a date night into a gaming night is to practice a little give and take. This works especially well with women who are not particularly into gaming on their own time, but might be interested in trying it with you. This way, she will feel like you are not necessarily eating into time she wants to spend with you, but welcoming her into something you already enjoy instead. This is a crucial difference, because if she starts to feel slighted, she is going to start resenting you, often times without you ever noticing. This tends to be a common problem in relationships regardless of the length of time, because a lot of us tend to think if she is not saying she does not like it, then it means it must be okay. Women, however, tend to be a little more subtle in how they communicate discontent, and often times try to make it less confrontational by playing down their own frustrations. That leaves us in situations where we suggest an activity like gaming, and she goes along with it for the sake of trying, but ends up disliking it. However, instead of straight up telling us she doesn’t like something we clearly enjoy, she will try to play down the fact that she does not like and instead try to find other options when it comes to dates. Whether that means scouring Liverpool for a new restaurant or going back to old haunts more often, make sure you accommodate for what she wants to do as well. If you suspect that she is not really enjoying the arrangement, it’s up to you to get her to talk about it.
Get Involved in Something She Already Likes Playing
This is a great solution even if she is only something of a casual gamer. Instead of spending time looking through British casual dating site reviews, try looing up information on the game she already plays. See if there is a way for you to join her, or at least catch up relatively quickly. One of the biggest mistakes guys make when it comes to getting their girlfriends to game with them is only paying attention to the games they like and are already playing. If she games too, there’s a pretty good chance something she is already playing may well be something you like as well. You never know until you give it a shot, after all.
Then, of course, there’s the fact that showing interest in things she likes is going to get you some major brownie points in its own right. If you ask her for help learning the game or dissecting its details, that will typically go over even better. Anything that involves some form of instruction from her to you is always something that is going to make you seem that much better in her eyes. Women are not necessarily used to guys they date really respecting their knowledge of anything from their actual careers to just something they happy to do in their spare time. Making a point of asking for her opinion on something is just the start. Asking for an expert opinion, direction, or straight up instruction is that much better.
Game in Person Whenever Possible
Of course, once you do settle on a game you both want to play, or at least something you can both play at the same time, having any sort of LAN party as often as possible is one of the best tips we can give for keeping game night from going stale. Always remember that when you replace a date with another activity, you are replacing time you would otherwise be spending together with her, and that means in person more than anything else. If you can replace that time with just a different form of hanging out together, not only will it be that much more palatable of a change, but it will have a better chance of sticking around longer as well. If you spend every game night across town at different computers, for all she knows you could be spending your night looking up British casual dating site reviews even while logged into the game. The more you involve her, the longer you will be able to keep gaming night. If things don’t work out with her, you can always lookup for hot UK online hookups at casualdatingtactics.co.uk/sites-compared/. Choose from the best casual dating sites and find a likeminded woman, who isn’t insecure and ready to game all night.